believe in being honest, true, chaste, benevolent, virtuous and in doing
good to all men...We believe all things, we hope all things, we have
endured many things and hope to be able to
endure all things. If there is anything virtuous, lovely or of good report or praiseworthy, we seek after these things.......................from the 13th ARTICLE OF FAITH
About this website
The idea of creating this website came to my mind about a year ago. I often traveled for business and I occasionally thought of attending some church-sponsored singles activities in the areas that I visited. It was not always easy to find information on singles events in a particular city or area even though there are quite a few singles websites and email lists that have already been set up independently by the singles in different areas. I thought that it would be nice if there were a centralized website that provides information on singles events in all areas of the United States but such a website did not exist. I felt prompted that I should create a website to provide that kind of information. Unfortunately I had hardly any knowledge in building websites. Nevertheless, that prompting stayed on my mind.
I have read several good books on relationships in the last several years and I have learned a lot from these books. I have also learned about the importance of paying attention to personal growth and developing good personal values. I thought it would be nice to include this kind of information on the website that I have been day-dreaming to build. It would help singles understand better about relationships and personal growth and subsequently help them prepare for a happier and more successful life.
Several years ago, I received a calling to serve as the stake single adult representative for my stake. I became quite active in the singles program of the church and had the opportunity to make friends with a lot of singles. I was often touched when I saw the hardships that some singles go through, especially the single mothers. I can relate to them as I am a single myself. Working with the singles over the last several years has helped me develop a deep sense of compassion for them. I often thought about what I could do to help the singles have a better life. I felt there was a need for a centralized resource to help bring the singles together and to provide a variety of information that is helpful to them. I have been given much in my life. Donating the necessary funds and my spare time to build such a website would be a good way to serve my fellow single brothers and sisters in the church and express my thanks to Heavenly Father for what He has given me. As I listen to the words of the hymn "Because I have been given much", I feel that I must give to others because I have been given much.
I recently read a book written by Stephen Covey with the title of "The 8th Habit - From Effectiveness to Greatness". After reading this book, I decided to take on this project even though I know that it will take a lot of time and energy to build and maintain such a website. I want to apply one of the messages that I learned from this book which is "to live, to learn, to love and to leave a legacy". I started trying to learn how to build websites. I got together with a few friends and started this project. After many days of hard work in my spare time...and fun, this website was finally born. My goal was to create a comprehensive resource for LDS singles with a variety of information that would enhance their social lives, facilitate them to prepare for a happy marriage and encourage them to grow to be their best selves. It is my sincere hope that this website may accomplish my goal and make a positive difference in your life . I want to make this world a better place to live for all of us in the singles community.
Thank you for reading about the background of this website.